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Successful singles respond to a crisis by taking advantage of the opportunity. Basically, successful people respond to changes and difficulty by seeing the opportunity in the situation.

We left off at that remarkable moment when Erwan blew my mind with his on-point response to my mixed messages during our initial courting phase.

Ever find yourself living into a scripted future? Especially romantically? Kind of like a movie where you could kind of tell the ending already…

In my experience a great love story includes some kind of seduction 

Sometimes people don’t like the word seduction…

I recently had a re-love affair w Tori Amos’ music . I was reading up on the background of one of my favorite albums and…

The importance of the group of people or the community around the relationship is one thing that usually goes unacknowledged.

Attraction has always been interesting to me… I think it is for most people. It’s how Alicia and I landed each other and how all epic romances start and flourish. Yet, it often remains in the shadows, isn’t talked about directly, much less studied.

My first few long term relationships ended because they or me, usually, both, didn’t have space for what was arising. We chose our judgments over the relationship. In hindsight, at least my judgments were usually wrong…

17 years ago I discovered the true source of a woman’s attractiveness.

In my experience, women are inherently interested in being attractive.

But here is the thing. I am not talking just physical beauty here…

Erwan and I were hanging in our bedroom. He was doing yoga, I was on my laptop. I was leaving in a few minutes for a yoga class. We were chatting, relaying logistical information about the rest of the day …