Winter is nearly here, and we love this time of year. It’s cozy, comfortable, and an excellent time for some seriously sensual exploration. Summertime may be sexy time, but winter is when you want everything to heat up. Relationship coaches Erwan and Alicia Davon have shared three key skills that keep things spicy and fresh for the new year. Read ahead to find out! 


#1: Give and receive!

Sensual touch takes things to the next level. If you are in a relationship, it’s time to not only give the gift of sensual touch but to ask for it in return. Communication is important! Be sure to wholly embrace the concept of giving, too. Many people enjoy giving just as much, if not more, than receiving. A significant portion of sensual enthusiasm is mental, so the more intense and excited you are, the more that fire will stoke. Even better, by giving sensual touch, you can show your partner what you want as well. 

If you’re not in a relationship, try giving compliments instead. You can flatter their clothing, their smile, or anything you can see they’ve put effort into. Don’t be too shy to ask for a compliment back! Throw in a wink, and you’ll be good to go. 


#2: Take care of yourself! 

Staying healthy is important. You can’t enjoy yourself if you’re constantly stressed and worried about your health. Part of participating in couples coaching for a healthy relationship is learning to practice self-care! Here are Erwan and Alicia’s tips for staying healthy. 

  • Get eight or more hours of sleep each night. Yes, that might mean sacrificing a Netflix binge, but you’ll feel like a new person with the right amount of rest. 
  • Drink hot herbal tea throughout the day. This will guard you against sickness and keep you nice and warm. A hot cup of tea will do wonders during the cold months of winter. 

If you can manage these two things, you’ll be better able to focus on your sensuality. Once you’ve mastered a good night’s rest and staving off sickness, try getting exercise to bring your body to its peak performance levels. The healthier you feel, the more fun you can have! 


#3: Self-pleasure is magic. 

Whether you’re in a relationship or not, self-pleasure and exploration is a great way to set your mind for the mood. Keep things sensual in a warm room with plenty of lubricant and tantalizing scents. Set the lighting, turn on some sexy music, and bring your self-pleasure to the next level. This will infuse your life experience with chemistry and keep you ready for more. 


If you’re looking for even more ways to keep things steamy, you’re in luck! Enjoy the wild side of relationship coaching in San Francisco and sign up for Erwan and Alicia’s online class on December 16th: Tantra & Sexual Energy – Everything You Want To Know. You’ll learn all about how both singles and couples can supercharge their sex lives. The Davons know the biggest challenge is a lack of chemistry and are ready to share all their tips and tricks for keeping things hot. Tantra, the practice of deliberately increasing sexual energy, will make your love life more fun and exciting. It doesn’t matter if you are single, about to have your first date, or have been with your partner for years. They can teach you how to have extended orgasms and find the greatest pleasure in all sexual acts. 

Don’t miss out on the hottest couples coaching in San Francisco! Sign up now and get ready for the best winter of your life!

For more information, contact Erwan and Alicia Davon, San Francisco Relationship Counselors & Experts at Couples Coaching.